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It's best to approach the conversation about giving toys a non-judgmental and loving manner. Your partner may feel criticized or as if the sexual dynamic in your relationship isn't good enough.

Start with a simple vibrator wand like Lelo's Lily 2 designed for shared pleasure. You can also choose an enchained clip from Adam & Eve for a bondage-esque exploration of the nipples.

1. Sex Games

Sex games are an excellent way for couples to spice up their relationship or the bedroom without having to talk about sexuality. These games for flirting are a great way for couples to get to know each other and spark sexual desire.

Try sexy, impromptu games, such as "Truth or Dare", to break the ice. In this game, the person giving the gift can utilize a variety of sensation play tools, including pleasure products or household items, and then test them on their partner's body in different positions, like on the neck or thighs. The player must select between A and B to aid the giver in developing their skills, and discover their sexual needs.

This game is also an excellent opportunity to explore your sexual fantasies and the kinks. For instance, the game provides the player the chance to discover their partner's kinks through scat play, foot worship or role-playing, and incorporate into their future sexual routines.

Play the game of bedroom battles for a more competitive game. This fun and steamy game includes a die, timer and two sets of cards with sexually explicit instructions like "put a blindfold on your lover," "grab their feet" and "take them by the hair."

2. Sex adults toys for women

Sex toys can be a lot of fun for couples of all genders. Some of the most well-known couple sex toys are wearables, such as cockrings and vibrators that can be put on the vagina or the penis. These devices are designed to hit certain pleasure points and ease the work load for partners, which could make foreplay more fun.

Some couples like to add vibrators to use during penetration or even options that are ideal for masturbation. The Hot Octopuss Pulse Duo is a nora adult toy for hands-free play that is worn by the male and placed over the partner's erection to provide vibrations. It comes with six levels of intensity and is waterproof. This means that it can be used in the bathroom, or for sexual activity outside the bedroom.

Another option for penetrative play is the wand-like vibrator from Womanizer with a stimulator on both ends and comes in a variety of skin tones. The wand can be bent into a C-shape or an S-form and can bend, making it easier to target specific erogenous areas.

Toys such as the packer and dildo from New York Toy Collective can be used by both partners for oral sex and masturbation. Frost likes that they're available in different sizes to accommodate circumcised or uncircumcised individuals. She also recommends the brand's Shilo which is constructed from a posable fabric that's latex-free and has a head for G-spot as well as prostate stimulation.

3. Sexy Accessories

Some accessories may appear too "sexy" for the bedroom, but if used in the right way, they can really boost the excitement. Particularly when it comes to hand-free masturbation toys that are suitable for couples, these bedroom additions can bring a amount of excitement to sexual exploration.

A wand vibrator is a popular sex tool for couples. It's easy to use, and it's perfect for those who prefer less intimidating stimulation. This Manta Ray vibration from New York Toy Collective is popular with gay couples. It features an energizing curved surface on one side, and a smooth spherical surface on the other. This couples-friendly vibrator that is hands-free also comes with a range of intensity levels, as well as rechargeable batteries which can last up to four hours.

Other cool accessories for couples are a massager for couples from Dame, which is shaped as a hood that resembles a clitoral one and has a sleeve with ribbed texture that stimulates the clit, G spot and penis. It is made of medical-grade materials and is the texture of a silicone material that's extremely soft to touch.

Handcuffs might seem a little too "sexual" for the bedroom, but if used in a fun and safe way they can be incredibly exciting. You can try couple's handcuffs in the first time, or in the midst of a pair BDSM professionals, this soft white set by Honey Birdette can be fun and fun while giving serious stroking to your playtime in the bedroom.

4. Sex Gear

There are many ways to have fun exploring erogenous zones together. Sex toys for couples are available in a myriad of exciting options, from hot wax play to vibrating rings and clitoral sounds. You can feel confident that you're getting top sex toys by choosing from brands such as We-Vibe and Lelo.

Sex toys come in a variety of costs, so shopping for them with an open mind is important. Frost says that a strap-on sex toy is "the ultimate toy for couples." He recommends the SpareParts harnesses as they are easy to put on and remove using velcro, and have an o-ring of silicone that is flexible and won't move. The harness he uses works well for power exchanges or pegging.

Another toy for couples that will surely please is this thong and vibrator combination from OhMiBod. The unique wearable can be recharged via USB and delivers stimulant vibrations that are comfortable to fit, with a remote to control the intensity. It also comes with a dildoholder, that is perfect for rousing your partner's clitoris, as well as the vulva during masturbation. Or, you could go the more traditional route and test this set of red furry handcuffs from Bellesa Boutique. The cuffs are designed to restrain your wrists and arms and can be tightened as needed.